Here is something I wasnt enthusiastic blogging about until the moment i touched the keyboard.

Love is the cause of creation, of destruction,of peace,of violence, so on and so forth.

Its not like I don't believe in it. I do. Only I prefer to look at it from all perspectives instead of just from the romantic angle.Its sad that even an Universal feeling such as love is being stereotyped.

It hurts me when its taken for granted. I've heard many people use the word "love" like any other word. Unfortunately they treat the very emotion,the very experience likewise. Thats when it hurts. For me, its not an emotion to be taken lightly may it be within the family or between friends or otherwise. I personally give a lot of weightage to the words I use. May be its wrong of me to expect others to do so too but I could always hope.:)

Simply put I'd say that you know you love someone when you put up with what they do at the same time tell them where they have gone wrong and help them correct it sticking with them all the way through. Thats the simplest I could put it. Its the only thing I could think of which would suit all relationships which glow in love.Others would add, I guess when it hurts you to see them hurt, When it makes you want to grin just by watching them grin etc etc. Its a complicated simple emotion;complicated when you think about it but absolutely simple and natural when you feel it. You decide. Are you going to think about it or Are you going to feel it?

I am not one vouching for blind love puhleeze!more often than not,that would lead to trouble.Especially when some people will realise that a certain someone did something for them, sometimes at the risk of losing something they hold dear just to be sure that the person they love,cherish and respect is happy is because they truly love the person. This is there even in the family. Sometimes, siblings have to give and take a lot. In most cases it becomes one-sided. Then again you have parents and children. I know of a few families where the children had to give up on something for the parents and vice versa. The difference lies in the fact that the kids dont know they have given up on something. For those who say the pained joy of loving someone is what makes it special, I'm not sorry to say that unless the "pain" part of it is recognised the "joy" bit is not gonna turn up- at least according to me.

Then what about when one person lies? especially if the lie is about love itself? Its one thing which kills even the strongest of bonds. Brings the entire relationship and everything built on that relationship to shambles. Trust is stirred. Even those who say they still love that person inspite of all those lies will have to agree that the rship cant go back to how it was. Some lucky ones have their loved ones learn a hard lesson and things look good for them but they wouldnt deny that the skeletons do keep popping their heads outta the cupboards.

So, whats the best way out/in?

I dont know.
Ask kids. Im pretty sure one of the lil geniuses would have the answer. After all,they are the embodiments of selfless love (well initially at least;) )